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My word for 2019 totally surprised me. But it completely makes sense after 2018. The women of our churches need pastoring. Titus 2 tells us that the older women (that’s me these days . . . ) are to pour into the younger women. Be sure to check out the free printable study on “one another-ing”!

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PASTOR. The verb, not the position or title. How can we pastor (shepherd, care for) the women of our church? I’m starting with L-A-V-I-S-H-E-D. How can we lavish the women of our church? By making them feel . . .

How Can We L-A-V-I-S-H the Women of Our Church?

Be intentional

  • Who are going to call or text or write a simple note this week?
  • Who can you visit in person?

Be spontaneous

  • Ask the Holy Spirit to guide your steps and open your eyes.
  • Act on the nudges!

Do a study on the “one-anothers” of the New Testament.

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Want to dive deeper into lavishing the women of your church? Check out this topical study printable!


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Jacque Garner is a podcaster and blogger with a heart to encourage and inspire pastors' wives. With over 30 years experience being married to a pastor, she understands the joys and challenges that come with this unique calling. She believes that pastors' wives can embrace with joy whatever and wherever ministry takes them as they lean into God, abide in His Word, and allow the Holy Spirit to lead them by the hand. Jacque is a mom to 4 amazing kids, a mother-in-love to 3, and Gigi to 7 practically perfect grandkids.